Well I kinda gave this whole Argon problem some thought.
I still haven’t reached a conclusion yet but I think I am near.
The Friendship Side
I respect Argon. He’s literally one of the most smart, honest and hardworking people I know. I’ve learnt stuff from him. I’ve learnt that giving something your absolute best with positive determination always results in something good. I’ve learnt that following your passion even when the world thinks you’re a lunatic is just freeing and feels amazing. I’ve learnt to care less about the shit people that surround me. I’ve learnt to talk to new people and turn them into amazing friends and open up to them. I’m not the Majooj I was a year back. I now have this weird new spark inside of me. I’ve learnt to be better organised. So honestly befriending him wasn’t the worst idea. In fact it was probably one my greatest ideas.
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The Love Side
This side covers all the stuff that’s over at the friend side of things. Plus his eyes. I’d die for them. I just wanna stare into them for hours on end deep in conversation. Anything else? Nope. (plus Noone said I can't stare into his eyes in a conversation as a friend 👀 so this point is kinda redundant as well)
Okay… writing this made me realise something. I know the first line said I haven’t reached a conclusion but what my English teacher (and common sense) taught me was last paragraphs are supposed to be for conclusions. Well then… here’s mine.
Friendship and Love just have this very (very) fine line between them (as I hopefully made clear with that dotted line above) and sometimes you just don’t realise what side of the line you’re on. It’s obviously ideal that you cover the friendship part first and then (maybe, just maybe) (if the stars align) cross over to the Love side of things. But, now I think that I’m fine just stopping at the edge of friendship. I like it here. There’s no heartbreak, no lovesickness (well… duh!) and it’s just a brighter side (at least for me). I find all the positive aspects of this person here and I’m fine with being friends. I’m more than happy staying friends. I still get to adore him without all the negativity and guilt attached. Now there are people who pull off the friends to lovers transition effortlessly (but not everyone can have what Monica and Chandler did) so why not just stay here. Stay Friends :) ?
p.s. i swear to god this was not sponsored by friends (the tv show)
I still haven’t reached a conclusion yet but I think I am near.
The Friendship Side
I respect Argon. He’s literally one of the most smart, honest and hardworking people I know. I’ve learnt stuff from him. I’ve learnt that giving something your absolute best with positive determination always results in something good. I’ve learnt that following your passion even when the world thinks you’re a lunatic is just freeing and feels amazing. I’ve learnt to care less about the shit people that surround me. I’ve learnt to talk to new people and turn them into amazing friends and open up to them. I’m not the Majooj I was a year back. I now have this weird new spark inside of me. I’ve learnt to be better organised. So honestly befriending him wasn’t the worst idea. In fact it was probably one my greatest ideas.
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The Love Side
This side covers all the stuff that’s over at the friend side of things. Plus his eyes. I’d die for them. I just wanna stare into them for hours on end deep in conversation. Anything else? Nope. (plus Noone said I can't stare into his eyes in a conversation as a friend 👀 so this point is kinda redundant as well)
Okay… writing this made me realise something. I know the first line said I haven’t reached a conclusion but what my English teacher (and common sense) taught me was last paragraphs are supposed to be for conclusions. Well then… here’s mine.
Friendship and Love just have this very (very) fine line between them (as I hopefully made clear with that dotted line above) and sometimes you just don’t realise what side of the line you’re on. It’s obviously ideal that you cover the friendship part first and then (maybe, just maybe) (if the stars align) cross over to the Love side of things. But, now I think that I’m fine just stopping at the edge of friendship. I like it here. There’s no heartbreak, no lovesickness (well… duh!) and it’s just a brighter side (at least for me). I find all the positive aspects of this person here and I’m fine with being friends. I’m more than happy staying friends. I still get to adore him without all the negativity and guilt attached. Now there are people who pull off the friends to lovers transition effortlessly (but not everyone can have what Monica and Chandler did) so why not just stay here. Stay Friends :) ?
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